-Goes alongside identifying toxic friends, or harmful/dangerous/stop-and-think friends as I've started using, but who are the people I consider okay that others might be uncomfortable with or uneasy with me spending time alone with? Make a list, think about it and remember to communicate before leaping.
-I am uncomfortable labeling friends as potentially harmful because of others' uncertainties. Doing so blindly is ill-informed. This is a matter you ask opinions on and make the final decision regarding action on your own.
-I predict a full-blown return of my indecisiveness as a result of this process at some point. Take preventative measures to avert this.
-This is still your life, no one else's, but you need to live it so as to not tax the others you share your life with unnecessarily.
-I want to be a better person.
-I need to slow down and think before I act.
-I need to actively think about and practice communication so it becomes a habit.
-I want the things I do to have a purpose. They are thoughtless actions otherwise.
-I want to destroy the facades I've built and hidden behind and just be me.
-I need to actively practice telling the truth in different situations so it becomes habit.
To Do:
-Prepare information for Monday: agreement, negotiations, removal.
-Find a wider variety of things to occupy your time. Part of the problem is that you get into habits and close yourself off to other opportunities and activities. Not all habits are good ones.
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